It is really simple why I shoot boudoir however here is a analogy that might resonate with you. Ever been in a woman's locker room where nobody is chatting as they rush to get ready for where ever they are going? You go to the mirror to beautify next to a few other ladies and you break the silence by saying, “ Wow, your butt looks amazing in those pants! What brand are they?” or “ OK, seriously did you remove ribs to get that waist! “ or ” Your skin is flawless. Secret please " Giving a compliment sincerely and lighting up someones day is addicting.
This is why I shoot boudoir. Of course It is nerve-racking at times for me, as I want to nail each each session within my expectations of how I want that client to look and feel . And yes I have HIGH expectations and usually higher than my subjects.
I put a lot of pressure on myself to make sure each and I mean ever session is NOT the same. There is no cookie-cutting when it comes to what I produce as we are all differently sexy in our own rights. A woman doing a session for her pastor husband is probably not going to want images on my pole and yet tying her wrist back with pearls in a submissive way is edgy and 100% acceptable.